Having trouble calling your significant other (aka S.O) your Slut? We can help with that!
The best tip we can give you is that you must talk about talking dirty. There is (almost) no way around it. TALK about it, TALK TALK TALK, COMMUNICATION is important. You can start by dirty txting aka Sexting, pillow talk, walk around a secluded place in public, or email… When you get comfortable using naughty vernacular, it is easy to use more of it and go deeper into the game.
The second best tip is to start slow, light, and playfully. Are you are having trouble transitioning between you the normal person, and you the dirty talker? Or now that you’ve put this notch in your bedpost, you feel odd in a regular setting after sex because of what you said?
These issues are easily addressed by putting the emphasis on the Role Play, and not that YOU called YOUR S.O a slut. Not following? You called SOME SLUT a slut, not YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Ladies, are you stuck on what to say? Try complimenting his penis – size, girth, hardness; tell him how much you love it, how smooth it is, how great it feels. Ask him if he likes the thing you’re doing, or how he wants it. Describe what you’re doing and how sexy it looks/feels – this is a great porn star trick. Eye contact during all of this is pretty awesome too. Talking dirty for you is more about attitude. It is also why most men enjoy porno. Those girls are total sluts who love, crave, work and live for cock. You can make that real for your guy! Just don’t use that porn start voice, it is a turn off usually.
Guys, it is easier for you to figure out what not to say, than what to say. Talk about what are words you two both don’t like. Cunt usually makes that list. Some favorites of ours are : Any personalization of common words like slut or whore “my good little slut” is a good start. Toy is a fun one “my sexy toy”. Usually things involving the words “hot little pussy” or “throbbing cock” are nice too.
Always start slow, take the pressure off yourselves and watch some porno, read some erotica. Use the words in deep “loving” tones first:
“yes, good girl, such a good little slut aren’t you?” while shes going down is a good opportunity, or as she is in a female superior position. Say it as a reward, or to point out how good she is doing. Encouragement is a good thing.
Then start saying non open statements, that deserve an answer that isn’t “yes” or “no”. Such as “Tell me why you like sucking me so much, tell me why I should let you in my pants…”
Take a tip from Poison and “Talk dirty to me…”
It is a little known fact that people like talking about things they enjoy. So in the beginning, stay positive.
And our last great piece of advice is to make Role Play your best friend. It helps if you both get really into it, maybe even a costume change, different make up if time allows it. Shedding clothing should be part of the metamorphosis from girlfriend to being his very own personal whore; it is 100% a mental game.
My uniform never looked like this… But it is what the guy’s saw.
Role Play will make everything easier… because it isn’t YOU doing it! You’re a student who needs guidance. You’re trying to get out of a speeding ticket. A nurse taking care of a sick patient. Thanking your fireman rescuer…babysitter earning tips… prison guarding a very depraved man… loving slave worshiping his Master parts … or a genie granting his wishes.
Remember, sex is physical and mental. Talking dirty is a mental game that enhances the physical!
Soon enough you’ll be able to transition easily, find balance and flux with the dichotomy between your two new selves. You can look at it as if you have a fun and sexy alter ego.
<3 Jane
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